

Specialized Relationship Therapy
You may be facing recurring conflict, damaged trust, emotional distance, or uncertainty about your future together. You want to understand what is happening and what needs to change.
At Couples Chat Therapy, relationship-focused care is the focus of my practice. I work with individuals and partners across monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, with specialized experience in step-couples and blended families.
My approach draws on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), trauma-informed care, and doctoral research on step-couple resilience and relationship satisfaction. In-person sessions are available in San Diego, with online therapy throughout California.
You raise a concern hoping to feel understood. Your partner hears criticism and becomes defensive. You push harder, they pull away, and the original concern remains unresolved.
We will slow down these moments to understand what each person experiences, how your responses affect one another, and what remains unaddressed. That includes taking responsibility for hurtful behavior and following through on needed changes.
Together, we will practice raising concerns, staying engaged, and repairing after conflict so difficult conversations can lead somewhere different.
You may have read the books, listened to the podcasts, watched the videos, taken the relationship quiz, or promised each other that things would be different after the last argument. Yet the same painful patterns keep resurfacing.
The issue is often not a lack of love, effort, or insight. Many partners understand what is happening but struggle to change what happens between them in the moments that matter most.
Do any of these sound familiar?
If these experiences feel familiar, you are not alone. The goal of relationship therapy is not to teach generic communication skills or help you avoid conflict. The goal is to understand the deeper patterns driving disconnection, create greater emotional safety, repair trust where it has been damaged, and help you build a relationship that feels more secure, connected, and sustainable.
Source: Kallos-Lilly & Fitzgerald (2015)
Couples Chat Therapy
Specialized relationship therapy in San Diego and online throughout California.
Dr. Kipenzi Herron, LMFT
California License #154306
3103 Falcon Street, Suite J · San Diego, CA 92103
hello@coupleschattherapy.com
Couples Chat Therapy is the private practice of Kipenzi M. Herron, PhD, LMFT.
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